…pump yo brakes – a letter to myself.

Photo by Lex Ger on Pexels.com If you follow this blog, you are more than aware of the conversations I have with myself, out loud, sharing them with you. Well this one is even better as I remind myself to slow down just a tad. Once again, I find myself in precarious situations - thankfully …

no one ever heard it…

I have been told that I have a flair for the dramatic and as an author, you kind of need that for a good story. Now this story that I am going to lay out is real...it happened, it may be a bit shall we say embellished but, in my head, in my soul and …

I see it now…

Revelation. That could be the entire blog right there. Seeing clearly what was there the entire time sometimes isn't as cut and dry as we would like it to be and that is probably for the best. Seems we need to go through a series of events to get the full scope of the lesson …

Old habits don’t really die…they manifest differently

THIS BLOG IS ABOUT ME TALKING ABOUT ME. IT'S MY BLOG I CAN DO IT. YOU, SIR/MA'AM...NOT SO MUCH. 🙂 Photo by Madethese on Pexels.com Listen, when I tell you I am my own worst enemy, believe me. I have been so scarred that I can talk myself into a whole meltdown about shit that …

Pillow Talk with God

The joys of blogging, until you hit save you can start over. This blog was moving in a total different direction, but per usual, playing in water gives me some sort of clarity superpower because the 6 paragraphs I had weren't getting the job done. My muse, once again, struck a creative nerve with this …

BIG FEELINGS

Let it GO!! This blog is the sister to my podcast done on Anchor (supported by Spotify) called Time to let it Go (shameless plug), although the title of this blog was made a few days ago. I have started listing my topics and then filling in the content as it comes to me. Relatively …

The Presence of YOU!!

An Ode to My Muse...He knows who he is. Who knew on that fateful day that this is where we would be, and yet here we are. It's funny how things turn out when you are least expecting them, not looking yet maybe hoping for something or someone to help you because secretly you are …

We are not lost we just aren’t there yet! Oh but the journey!!

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com This topic, like a lot of my most recent content is courtesy of one Mr. G.M.O., those are his initials. He is my muse. He will get his own blog but I wanted to acknowledge him here. Now, to the topic. This saying was born out of a conversation he …

…the music…

...the acts... ...the mood... Explicit Content - Adult Subject Matter Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com ...they started the conversation via text...so was the thought... she asked him to tell her how he would make her never forget him. He used a lot of music to incorporate the mood. ...you will be riding my dick …

What’s your Tell?

So, if you know me, you kind of know a few things about me: 1. I am super sensitive, not always during the proper times or about things that directly concern me but if you cry I cry, the reason isn't always necessary for me to know why. 2. I am passionate about the things …

The 5 Fingers of Death and Pleasure; The 5 Fingers of Safety and Comfort

Explicit Content He touched her...long before he met her, she was excited by his words. He fucked her mind and that was stupendous...she could only imagine how he would feel inside her moist waiting treasure trove of nougaty goodness...it was for him and him alone. Photo by Gustavo Peres on Pexels.com She made his love …

Can…YES!!

Can I be over the moon that I get to spend time with you, now and forever? Can I be stupid excited that I get to touch you, and you get to touch me, and we repeat that motion...a lot, for a long time? Can I be ecstatic that our lips will touch often, with …

An Ode to My Momma

Photo by Barbara Olsen on Pexels.com Mother's Day 2022. May 8th, to be exact (in case you are reading this and didn't remember when it was). I am doing my tribute early as it's been on my heart and mind and I would rather be early than late. Mothers have a hard job, just being …

Music and It’s Magical Way (a song by Jarrod Lawson)

Photo by Breakingpic on Pexels.com This song gives me all the feels and the grooves that make your booty move. I am in a funk for various reasons, but this song along with all this particular artists other works and a plethora of other artist manage to seep into that spot that is full of …

The date that haunts me. Learning to let go.

Most of us have things that have happened that we would like to forget but there are others of us that just like our birthday we have a knack for remembering the dates of events that shaped our lives, whether good or bad. That's where I am today. Remembering dates I would love to forget. …

What’s your zodiac sign..oh no? or who cares?

Photo by Sora Shimazaki on Pexels.com Photo by Antony Trivet on Pexels.com "Hey, how you doing? What's your name, what's your birthday, what's your sign?" OHHHHHH NOOOOOOO, not a (insert any sign of your choice), I dated one of them before and OH MY GOD...blah, blah blah. Yes, yes, we all have heard or told …

Brutus – A Love Story…kinda

People let me tell you bout my best friend he’s a warm hearted person (not really) who’ll love me to the end. People let me tell you bout my best friend, He’s a cuddly toy my up my down my pride and joy (lyrics from The Courtship of Eddie’s Father. This song came to mind …

Holding on until….

Well Shit!! When I tell you that sometimes I even amaze myself. Ok, well I am amazing, lol but sometimes I move in ways that take even me by surprise...who knew. So, here's what I know today. We are the masters of our own universe. That's it. We have to decide what is or isn't …

Pick your pain!!!

Listen to me Linda's and Larry’s!!!! This piece was born out of a dope conversation while I was out being grown on a Tuesday night. A school night. Lol. I won’t lie, when the gentleman I was talking to said that, I was suddenly inspired. Pick your pain. These three words had just summed up …

They loved me until they didn’t! An Ode to the family life after break up or divorce!!

This blog while like my other writings is meant in lightheartedness but full of truths. Now, let me start by saying that this is all about how I see what happened in the wake of the end of my marriage with my former husband. The family unit consisted of mostly women. He had 4 sisters, …

I appreciate all of me…now

Life is all about the moments that you realize something about yourself

Here I GROW!!!!

Today I write about growth. Not consequently we just started a journey at church of the same title. However, this growth I am talking about is outside the spiritual realm. The growth of self. The realization that all relationships are not meant to be forever, that friendships don't always go with you until old age …

My Favorite Color….SUCKS

Photo by Mike van Schoonderwalt on Pexels.com Man listen. This blog is about to be on some real shit. I will be the first and can be the only one to openly and honestly admit that I have entertained obvious red flags before, I saw them, made the decision to ignore them and here I …

What can I say

This is written in honor of my Great Uncle John. Life. full of unexpected twists and turns. This one though, hits a little different. You have been a constant for so many of us. A cornerstone in the very depth of who we are today. You taught us many lessons, whether on purpose or in …

Not that it’s new, but it’s worth repeating.

Stop expecting YOU from others. It may seem like the "right" thing or a common courtesy, that doesn't mean that it will done. Sleep doesn't help you when it's your soul that requires the rest. Strong people grow weary. Everyone was not raised the same. It's ok to care, as long as you know everyone …