They loved me until they didn’t! An Ode to the family life after break up or divorce!!

This blog while like my other writings is meant in lightheartedness but full of truths. Now, let me start by saying that this is all about how I see what happened in the wake of the end of my marriage with my former husband. The family unit consisted of mostly women. He had 4 sisters, …

Straight from my heart

Photo by burak kostak on Pexels.com I have had more ah ha moments in the last year or two that I wonder sometimes if I had them sooner how much different my life would be. Then I realize or have to admit, I wasn't ready for it then, like I am now. I would not …

How To Fix My Broken Soul?

Just because it's broken doesn't mean its damaged forever. My writings have become more than just a release of pet up frustrations and random emotions. As with this very writing I find myself freely without reservation being willing to go inside of the most dark places with candles and flashlights, lamps and night time vision …

…and then it hit me.

I am perpetually late to the party. I am slow to hear or know music, or sayings or about new drinks…just slow sometimes but I’m okay with that. What’s not ok is when you are laying in bed and your think about the randomness in your life and you realize that you have three favorite …

A love letter to my biggest fan and critic. Me!

Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com My Dearest Self. Hello. I pray this correspondence finds you well. I have been thinking about you and wanted to take the time to share some thoughts with you about you that stand out to me. I want to first start by telling you I love you so much. I …

The invisible Albatross!!

Oh to be young again. I have so many other ways to ruin my life. So many things I would do so differently. One of those things would be to either not have married at all or certainly not have married the men that I did. That is just the truth of the matter. My …

It’s so clear now.

Photo by Binti Malu on Pexels.com Clarity comes at all times during our life. What's important is to acknowledge the clarity and receive it. Sometimes, it's when you aren't even looking for it, other times its those Ahh Haaa moments that make sense of certain behaviours that you may have. For me, it's always at …

New Perspective, Who this???

Today I start this "new blog" as a testament of the growth I've made since my initial blogging efforts. Today I start with learning the actual fundamentals of blogging. How it works and how I will go forth and be great with the "new knowledge". I write this blog from a happier place, a knowing …

A Change is Sure to Come…

Perspective is everything!!!!! It's amazing to me that at 52 I am still learning things about myself. For example, using a different word in discussing a subject changed my entire outlook on a conversation I was having with my best good girlfriend. I realized just the other night that I am just fine. I am …

Sisterhood: Is it real when it’s not on Social Media??

Sister, my sister. My friend, my confidante, my ride or die, my keeper of secrets, my sharer of dreams. Why can't we love each other or so it seems. Photo by Dazzle Jam on Pexels.com You do know there is room for both of us to be great don't you? We can both shine together …